She’s better off without me I guess

So I took an emergency trip to North Carolina (10 hour drive from home) due to a family death. My 20 year old cousin died suddenly so my sister & I packed up to go help family.

My husband couldn’t take time off work to come so he offered to stayed home with our 2 year old (she went to the sitters while he was working).

Was gone 5 days. The whole time I was gone my husband was saying our 2 year old has been so good, he hasn’t had to put her in time out, she was going to bed on time, basically an angel. I wasn’t even home for 30 minutes before she’s acting out. Screaming at the top of her lungs because I won’t let her eat the cats food, screaming because it’s bedtime & refusing to go to bed, & refusing to listen to either of us... I tried giving her hugs & she kept pushing me away & telling me to go away. My husband kept saying she hasn’t acted like that at all since I left.

I just feel like I should’ve just stayed away. She was doing much better without me. I’m obviously not doing something right so. Maybe she’s just better off without me here...