Am I hella paranoid or are the vibes I’m feeling probably accurate?

Question

I would say the past 2-3 months my two girlfriends mostly don’t talk to me. When they do I keep getting vibes that they are saying everything passive aggressively. Like if something good happens and I text them they don’t respond and leave me on read and if I complain about something or am upset they respond kinda coldly almost as if they are glad about it. I don’t know if it’s me being paranoid but I get the vibe they’re not into me anymore. It’s sad because we’ve been friends for years but I get a weird feeling when we talk now. They admitted a while back they think I’m spoiled because they both struggle financially and I don’t really. I mean I think I’m a humble person and I don’t brag about anything but I guess they’re becoming resentful and jealous? I don’t really know what to think but I’ve been getting such bad vibes. Should I confront them and ask or should I just phase myself out?

Answer

Well based off this post... you sound a little unaware of others. You said you “tel them something good that happens to you” and then “complain about what bad happens to you.” Do you ask them how they are or engage with whats going on with them. Also u should be conscious of others situations and refrain from “stirring” the pot because it can come across as bragging. Sounds like u just need to be a little more sensitivw of those around you and more aware. Certain friends you can tell certain things others you cant. Use wisdom, discretion, and discernment

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Drop them! You don’t have time for jealous, petty people in your life. I have had couple of friends over the years just randomly decide they don’t like me... well, to the best of my knowledge. Because as much as I’ve thought of it I couldn’t come up with any solid reason. Like we didn’t have a big argument or anything 🤷🏻‍♀️ They just started leaving me out of plans and like you said, talking to me passive aggressively all the time. 
This was many years ago now but I still have no idea what happened. They were my BEST friends for a few years in my early 20s and they weren’t even invited to my wedding last year.

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Just ask them. For me, when a friend constantly complains about that same things (bad relationships, money, etc) I eventually start not responding because if they don’t choose to change the situation then complaining to me for eternity only brings me down and makes me focus on the negative. If they can’t tell you why things are different just back off and if they are real friends they will reach out to you

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Friendships fall and fade its normal. If you feel that way then talk to them separately. Take your feelings out of it as best as possible and read/listen to what they are saying. If it comes off cold,  passive aggressive, fake or whatever then you know what to do. Drop them like it feels like they have already done to you by what you're saying. Its a sucky feeling to have a long friendship die but its better than holding onto a friendship that isnt fulfilling and fun to be in.

Am I hella paranoid or are the vibes I’m feeling probably accurate?

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