I kicked him out

So my boyfriend of 2.5 years was sexting someone a few months ago. Didn’t last long and no possibility of them ever meeting. We talked, cried, etc and ultimately I gave him another chance. My ex husband cheated a lot physically and even got someone pregnant at the end so it’s not something I want to deal with again. This morning I noticed a notification on his phone and looked at it. It was a girl on tiktok messaging him something about we’ll see about meeting up. Naturally upon seeing that I opened it and read the messages and they’d been texting for hours the night before while I was sleeping.

I told him I couldn’t do it again and he had to get out. He doesn’t live here but we’d been fixing up his house to sell and a lot of his stuff was here. I know it was the right thing to do and I know me and my kids will be alright but it just sucks. I’ve done this before and started my life completely over with infant twins. I’m heartbroken and don’t want to start over with someone else kwim? I can’t even bring myself to tell anyone else yet. I just want to work through it first and then I’ll be alright. Even Facebook says we’re still together. Just wanted to vent and get it out there. Doing the right thing still hurts like hell.