Creepy Guy?

Question

*Long-ish story*
A guy has been OBSESSED with me for about 4 years now. I’m 20, he’s 29. I’ve made it clear that I don’t wanna talk to him and that I have no interest. So, I’ll tell him to politely leave me alone and he’ll say “Okay, you know where I am if you need me.” A few days will pass and he’ll contact me again! He’s made fake profiles on Facebook and Snapchat countless times just to contact me. He’ll kinda text me a lot for a few days, then he’ll calm down usually the weekends so I always think finally, he probably got bored or whatever but then I’ll get a random text here and there. For example, I got a text this morning from him saying “hey, how you feeling today? :)” and just out of politeness, I text him back just saying “I’m fine thanks”. He hasn’t text back in a few hours so I’m like thank God, but I know he’ll start again if that makes sense? I’m sick of blocking him because I know he’ll do absolutely anything to find me again. I posted a new profile picture on Facebook in which I was wearing a black tank top and he randomly texts “You look good in black, you could pull anything off”. He gives me compliments all of the time and it makes me feel strange at times. Another time he texts me out of the blue saying “did you cum?”. Like.. He just gives off creepy vibes. I was 16 when this all started and he sent me numerous nude photos and videos of himself. He also sent me a video of him having sex with a women.. I feel like in a way he destroyed my innocence even though I haven’t done anything or sent anything to him. He made me feel dirty.. We can be talking about one thing and the next thing, it’ll just turn sexual. He always says he wants to meet me and tells me he ‘more than likes me’. He says he’s fallen for me and constantly talks about me being his girlfriend one day. There’s so much more I could write but I don’t wanna make this too long.. I would just like to know your opinions on if I’m overreacting or not?

Answer

Well stop texting him to start. Literally do not reply to anything, ever. Secondly if you have his details then I'd go to the police for a restraining order.
I'd also look at changing your number.
Does he live nearby or is this all online?

Answer

So I’m gonna tell you a bit about my situation and I’ve been there with a stocker so I understand how scary it is.
A little after I turned 22, I decided I was ready to try online dating. I signed up for a profile with plenty of fish and I mostly dealt with a lot of guys who were being perverts. There was one guy in particular who would not stop messaging me. At one point I told him that I wasn’t interested in getting to know him and told him good luck on his search. He still wouldn’t leave me alone. It even resulted in me blocking him. He created a brand new profile just to harass me.
￼
At that point I ended up deleting my plenty of fish profile because of the harassment. One day while I was working in the fitting rooms at Walmart (different town than the one I lived in) I get a text and when I open it up it’s a dick pic. I asked who is this and he replied with a picture and sure enough it was a guy from the dating site.￼ I asked him how he got my number￼ but he wouldn’t tell me. I told him he needed to leave me alone and stop texting me. He kept sending dick pic after dick pic. Then he sent me a text that really scared me. He told me that he was watching me and I looked really cute wearing the belt I had on with stars.
He said that he was at my workplace and near the fitting rooms￼.
I notified my manager and left work early. I got on the bus and rode the bus home. Then he text me a picture of my apartment complex and asked which unit I lived in because he wanted to come see me. At this point I contacted the police immediately and sure enough after I contacted the police I never heard from him again.
You need to set all your accounts for social media to private. Modify your settings to where only friends of friends can add you and filter out any messages from him and if a strange profile messages you just delete the message completely without reading it. Save any text messages from him but don’t reply. Bring the police into it because while he may not know where you live right now it’s only a matter of time before he figures it out.
￼￼

Answer

His stalking you block him on every platform change your number. If it continues go to the police.

Answer

Okay yes he is creepy but at some point you need to actually take a stand here.
Don't reply when he texts you. Ever. Lock down your social media, and restrict your friends and followers to ONLY people you know personally. Change your phone number. 
Document as much as you can about his behaviour. Keep a diary and without responding document every time he contacts you, how he contacts you and what he says. Keep screenshots. If you have proof of him contacting you as a minor that's even better. Go to the police and file a restraining order.

Answer

Do not reply to him AT ALL. I know you want to be polite (something like this happened to me too and I never wanted to be rude but eventually I realized it’s not being rude it’s protecting myself). Replying is going to just keep giving him encouragement to continue his behaviour. Secondly, this is outright illegal especially since it started when you were at such a young age. I would tell your parents first off if they don’t already know and then I would take it to the police.

Answer

Block him on everything,including texts. STOP responding to him. If he continues, go to the cops. But STOP responding to him,about anything.

Creepy Guy?

The Top Baby Tracker App: Embrace New Beginnings with Tender Care

The Top Fertility Tracker App: Your Path to Achieving Pregnancy

The Top Pregnancy App: Nurturing Your Journey to Motherhood

The Top Period Tracker for Empowering Your Menstrual Health Journey