Just curious! No judgment

Hi I just want some thoughts on what you guys think! It’s been playing in my mind for a few weeks now!

My friend has this 1 year old. Whenever I go there ( when my parents have my daughter ) this 1 year old is still up at 1030pm and hasn’t even had a shower/bath yet! But sometimes they chuck her in around 1030pm!

Last night I was there till 1030 and I said ill put her in the shower ( as she loves them ) so I did! She didn’t go to bed till 11pm! I showered her at 930! She was drinking juice and eating marshmellows And lollies 😕

Even has coke!

I am not judging but I’m just curious .. is this normal? My daughter is only 4.5 months old so I wouldn’t know. But some mums who I know who have 1 year olds They are normally in bed by 7.

TIA