Need better friends

My husband has this friend who was a good kid he’s always taken account of we take longer and can’t do some things because of a baby but then his girlfriend came back in town and he completely changed attitude started rushing us with things to the point we had to tell him hey we can go to “so and so”

Later he comes to us saying his girlfriends doing things like leaving to the beach with other guys a week at a time he ends up coming here to vent and we’re like okay it’s fine he’s just upset they just broke up.

For me I don’t like any type of drugs not smoking vaping or drinking. We don’t keep any of those in our home and he brought his own white claws and drank until he was drunk and had to spend the night here. I let it go cause he was still talking to his ex getting over it all...

My best friend was a virgin and I told her hey he’s not in an okay state don’t let him take advantage of you don’t have sex! And they ended up hanging out at his house and she lost her virginity.. the next day he starts dating this new girl and he starts acting complexly different in front of us all we all ca tell he’s trying to impress this new girl. I ended up fighting for this new girl on Facebook because these men were bullying her.. jokes on me because I go into the garage where my husband and his friend are working in their cars just to find the guy smashing a Xanax on the bumper of my husbands car!!! My husband was underneath his car so he didn’t see this happening and I told his friend I don’t like this and I don’t want it happening here and his new girlfriend comes out from going to the bathroom and he just looks at me shrugs and they start snorting the freaking Xanax on my husbands car!!! I tried to hold my anger and went inside to make a bottle my husband told everyone to leave after that so his friend comes inside asking if I told him to say that and I started going OFF told him how this was my home and neither of us were okay with this and told him to leave and never come back he got in his car and sat right in front of our drive way trying to get my husbands attention when I wasn’t there and being a loyal husband he is he didn’t listen so we closed the garage door and the boy stormed off.. I’m glad we have a security system here cause if he shows up again and doesn’t leave I’m calling the cops next time this was absolutely ridiculous!!!