Need advise on “sensitive” subject 🙄

Ok so here is my rant. I am a very private person and don’t seek attention. I like being left alone and I don’t take help very easily from people. I barley take it from my husband. When I ask for help that’s one thing but that’s a whole other issue. My problem right now is I’m 39wks pregnant and people won’t leave me alone. I understand that having a child is supposed to be a happy time and people are supposed to care about you and ask you a million questions a day and they genuinely care but seriously if one person asks how I’m feeling, I might loose my mind!!

I have an induction on Friday and I’m very excited but I have people inviting themselves over to my house before it and after we get home to help me with stuff-not sure what-and I’d rather be left alone. I don’t want to be rude but seriously how do I tell people to leave me alone without coming across as a bitch? I have people asking if they can come to the hospital and just wait so they can come up and meet him and saying they aren’t giving me a choice on if I want visitors and that I should be grateful to have people who care enough to want to come. It’s been an ongoing thing my entire pregnancy and I try to express how I feel and ask advice from my husband but he doesn’t understand! He says he doesn’t see why it bothers me so much? I’m just frustrated and hope I’m not the only person going through this! Please just give me advice on what to do or say to these people! Is it selfish of me to say that I wish people cared less?? Cause 20+ people asking the same question over and over and 10+ other people expecting to just show up without notice is just gonna make me wanna scream but my husband says to just ignore it. 🙄😭😤