im 20 living with strict mom

my mom gets mad at me when i come home late even though i tell her where i am and i’m safe. she always threatens to tell my dad about my boyfriend when i come home late but at this point i know it’s just a ploy to keep me under her authority which is annoying because my brothers didnt have to deal with this when they were my age. i’m a lot more responsible than they were but she still looks past that because i’m a girl. and i can’t move out anytime soon because of the covid and because she’s taken my money i was saving up. my plan was moving out but now i have to start from scratch again and it’ll be hard because i wont be working as much as i did before. is it worth doing what i want and getting in trouble with them? at least until i hve the means to move out?