Is it justified that I feel upset that my crush is hanging out with my friend?

Question

So this guy told me he was interested in me and I was interested in him too. Then after we had sex he told me he wasn't ready for a relationship.
Due to the lockdown and haven't been seeing him for a couple months made my feelings for him fade. My friend knew how I felt towards him and our situation but I did think that she might be interested in him (she always try to talk to him and suddenly took interest in cooking because he is into cooking)
We had a small gathering last weekend and after I left apparently she stayed there talking to him til 3:30am.
Suddenly now I see a snapchat that they are cooking food together. I don't know how I should proceed about this. Technically they are both single and can do whatever they want but I feel betrayed
We are all in uni, he's 23, I'm 21 and she's 19

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Maybe they are just mates? 
How good of a friend is she? 
He sounds like he only said those things to sleep with you sorry Hun x

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I'm sorry hun but I think he just wanted to have sex with you...and he did, he was never really interested in a relationship. He might even be trying that on with your friend. I get how you feel but as you know you can't have dibs on people just because you like them. Does your friend know? She mightve assumed you were over him.

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It’s okay to feel that way! Your feelings are valid. Honestly my advice is to just ignore them and cut them both out of your life as a real friend wouldn’t go after the guy you like. 
Just please learn from this experience and realise just how precious your kitty 🐱 is some people don’t deserve to even go near it!

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Y’all at the a couple and they are both adults who can see who they want. It’s understandable you feel bad, but they can definitely see eachother or even become a couple. Unfortunately that’s life

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Your friend is TRASH. 
Plain and simple

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Yeah. 100% justified. This happened when I was in high school(years ago) but I remember how bad it hurt me. My best friend ever started dating the guy I would talk about everyday and my biggest crush. I felt so hurt and like I wasn’t good enough and that SHE was better. Honestly any advice I can give you is if that happened focus on somebody else. You’re too good and too great of a human being to be stuck on this dude. Now for the girl I’d say mention it to her how it hurt you and upset you if you’re wanting to save the friendship. I wish you luck.

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You don't have dibs. He can give anyone attention he wants. What you're feeling is jealousy but it's not rational.

Is it justified that I feel upset that my crush is hanging out with my friend?

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