My boyfriend is literally a p.o.s.

Okay get this, My boyfriend and I doing shopping for 2 weeks. This time it was my turn. I went to Walmart by myself even though he was home because his dumb ass smoked K2. Well, I bought $100 worth of food, I had to load it in my car by myself. Then unload it by myself. So I come in and he’s downstairs. So I asked him to help me put away the groceries.

Instead of helping me he decides to smoke more K2. I literally looked at him and said “you’re seriously going smoke that shit instead of helping me” and his response was “yeah”.

So he smoked and then he goes to head up stairs. At this point I’m irate and literally told him not to eat any of the food that I bought for us if he wasn’t going to help. So not only did I do the grocery shopping, I loaded and unloaded $100 worth of groceries, mind you it was probably about 30 bags in all. Then I had to put $100 worth of groceries away by myself because he’s a selfish asshole that wants to eat the food I buy but not make a contribution.

Whenever he goes shopping for food, if I’m not at work, I go with him. I help load and unload his trunk. I help him carry the bags in and help get the food put away. But the past 3 times I went shopping he has done this to me.

I’m literally getting so fed up with being the only person who does everything. I do most the cleaning, cooking, etc and he acts like his job is so hard when all he has to do is grubhub while he’s furloughed. I’ve literally worked through the entire pandemic.

***UPDATE***

So it’s not that I came home with a shitty attitude. I was actually in a really good mood when I came home and he pulled the shit he did. I politely asked him to help me and he flat out choose to get high. Then he wants to use the excuse that he did grubhub last night but there have been plenty of days I worked all day, came home and spent a few hours cooking a nice dinner for the both of us to eat.

Update number two

For those who are saying being a Big girl and address the issue with K2. I have addressed the issue multiple times including trying to do an intervention to get him off of it. He stays clean off of it for about 2 to 4 weeks and then he relapses and his excuse is that his dealer called him. So it’s not like I haven’t done anything and I’m about to get $3000 in back pay and I told him once I get the $3000 I’m moving back home because I’m not doing it anymore it’s the end of it because I can’t deal with everything anymore and I come last to a drug and it’s not fair to me.

His dad has been involved in the situation which obviously caused bigger problems because he says he blames me for his dad finding out about his drug addiction but the thing is my car was having issues and his dad generously bought me a new car and when he came to drop my new car off, he was higher than a kite. And he tried to say he was drunk and his dad looked at him and said “You’re not drunk you’ve been smoking something”.

His dad is even in agreement that it wouldn’t be a bad thing if he switched to marijuana and I would fully support his decision to switch to marijuana because I don’t have a problem with marijuana. I don’t want him smoking K2 not only because it’s bad for his health but he’s exposing me to it and I don’t do any drugs I don’t even drink. My father (I never knew him) was an alcoholic and a drug addict.