I’m at a loss...

My husband and I have a pretty good marriage. Weve been married for around 8 months now. We got married as soon as I finished training for the army. The problem here is... EVERYTHING I say he finds mean. Like I could literally say anything and he finds it mean or rude. But through my eyes it’s not mean nor rude, it’s just talking like normal (even joking around). I don’t know. It has me feeling so down. He’s not much of a communicator either, I try to explain how it wasn’t mean or rude and say he takes things the wrong way, and he just gets more mad and gives me the silent treatment. 🙄 So I’m feeling like I can’t even talk to him anymore, because I’m just “mean” all the time. Does anyone have any advice that I can do here? Its been around 4 months that this has been going on. 😩 I feel like he’s just really sensitive, but I CANT stand it!