Please tell me I'm not the crazy one in my family🙄

So I went to my dad's on Father's Day and I told them that, even when my 2nd baby is born, my kids aren't allowed to spend the night at my moms. Reason being, my brother who got out of jail is living there. Hes a meth head with no teeth, has anger issues, violent, molested my other older brother when we were kids, beats women, and threated to kill his ex wife and bury her in my moms woods. And when he told me about that, he laughed really hard. This guy is bat shit crazy. He literally lies about everything and always has. My parents always believe him. When he got fired from our job for overdosing at work and missing waaaaaaaaaay too many days, he spread rumors that my boyfriend beats me . (He was our manager) 🙄 and my family believed him. Like its absolutely crazy, dude! When I told my dad about my kids not going to my moms for the night, because I dont trust him, my dad sounded personally offended ! He said "I dont think he'd ever do anything...... he loves his son" like he doesnt even see his son! And if he did, i wouldnt trust him around his own son!!

I said these are my kids, if my mother wants to see my daughter or the baby, they can visit. I'm not holding my children from my mom and shes not even upset! She understands the situation. Like it made me irritated that he made it seem like I was being irrational. Like I dont give a fuck about what you think, quite frankly because he was a shitty ass father too! I have my own family now and I look out for kids, idc about your feelings. My brother would kiss my daughters cheeks over and over and she kept saying no and pushing him off. (Shes 4) he tried justifying it saying he loves kids. Like I dont give a fuck about your feelings , kiss my daughter or touch her, and I will not hesitate to chop your balls off. Nobody is obligated to give a kiss or hug to anyone.