We broke up a week ago. I know for a fact he is taking it harder than I am because we broke up bc of his mistakes (not cheating) but because he was bad at communicating, he lied about such STUPID and unnecessary stuff and we argued over the stupidest stuff all the time and I just grew tired of it. We’ve been together 4 years and I love him so much still but I couldn’t deal with that much stress anymore.

He texted me and wanted to get together for more closure but I said no bc I think he’s going to beg for me back and I didn’t wanna fall into the trap.

I have no friends and just need to hear it from someone other than myself that I don’t have to feel bad that he is having a harder time than I am.