Struggling/need advice

Taylor • Baby #1 ❤️ little girl ❤️ Gracie Lou

Hay. I need some advice oh this type of loss. My SO’s father was killed in a head on collision on July 3rd. Our daughter isn’t even a year old and was his dads first blood grandchild and my SO was his only son. I guess my question is for those who have gone through the loss of a parent or father in law. What is your advice to the spouse of the one who lost the parent? I’m at a loss for words and am unsure what to do