Am I wrong?

Lately me and my boyfriend have been fighting a lot well mostly me being upset. I feel so unappresiated and i feel so much resentment towards him. We have three kids together. The youngest one is a month old. I do everything and in a few weeks I will be going back to work and still will be doing everything. I wake up super early to get myself and the girls ready before going to work and dropping the oldest one at school. Now with the baby its going to be so much harder 😭😭 she is such a good baby but its still a lot for me. I clean take care of the girls and work and did I mention I take online classes? He cant even put them to bed because he claims he dosent know how like how hard is it to put a two year old in pijamas and read a story? He works a lot so when he gets home its kinda late and I understand he wants to see them but bed time comes and he is like oh wait let them stay up a little bit more that means I end up putting the two year old to bed at 830 which then the 6 year old at 9 by the time I am done its 930 and the baby is waking up for a bottle after I am done I still have homework and take a shower or something he just dosent understand! Like hey let me help you put them to sleep or hey let me help you give them a bath and when he does have days off he just sits on the couch and not even pay attention to them. He takes it as since he is the one paying most of the bills and the mortage that he cant help or do anything else. I work too but I mostly help with one or two bills and the rest goes to clothes for the kids/daycare/myschool/kidsdance classes/groceries othet stuff birthdays. I get most of the crhistmas shopping for the kids/family and I feel lik I get nothing in return. Im not talking materialistic thing either but come on. I cant complain about not having enough time to do homework because aparently its my choice to go to school 😭 The past two years every single date we have gone to its me paying and I cant ask for him to take me on a date without him saying I pay for us to have a roof over our head. And since we have three kids its kinda hard to even go on dates so its not like im asking for a date every week. For christmas, valentines or mothers day I dont get anything not a card or letter or even a hey sleep in since its mothers day. Nope nada and again he goes with the I pay to have a roof over our head would you rather me get you expensive things and spoil you the way you want to be spoiled or have somewhere to live. I resent him because I dont have a lot of extra money left at the enf of the month either but I always find a way to either save to do something as a family or for him or try to find inexpensive things to do. Am I wrong for feeling like this?