I see alot for women get upset when their mother in law talks to their husband or boyfriend everyday and I dont get it...

For one, no one would blink an eye if it was a mother calling her daughter every day

Secondly, mothers (as we all know) put years and years into raising their child... close to 18 years approximately give or take. Theres nothing wrong with checking in with your grown child everyday (doesn't have to be hour long conversations) especially when you have sacrificed so much for them and they were basically your every thought all those years.

I see alot of women use it on here as fuel to dislike their mother in laws (" she calls and checks on him everyday and hes a grown man")

and I gotta say it shouldnt be a factor at all.... if my daughter ever dates a man who gets upset that I call and check in on her every day I'd hate his guts too. And if I had a son I'd do the same thing. They'll always be my babies.

Disclaimer:once again I dont mean hour long conversations everyday obviously..... and also you should take it as a good sign when someone has a good relationship with their mother when they're not just living under their roof. Seems like women want to cut out mother in laws all together all the time. And trust me I know mother in laws arent perfect, I hated my last one and its bittersweet that I've never met my current's mother because she passed when he was in h.s. I understand it's hard to get along with them but them checking in on their kids everyday shouldnt be a factor at all.