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Fella hasn’t eaten the kitty yet

Amber • Tue, Jul 07 • Don’t be a why her and not me type of bitch. Be a, how can I get next to that bitch type of bitch. -Cardi B

So I’ve been with my guy for a little over a year and we have a very active sex life. The only thing is, he hasn’t eaten me out yet. I brought it up and he says it’s because of two factors, 1 he’s afraid he won’t do it right because in several past relationships he was apparently so bad he was asked to stop, and 2 he’s wary of taste and smell of vaginas.

What can I do? I should mention I’ve never pressured him to do it, but he ALWAYS expects blowjobs. I’m feeling left out.