Should I keep the money or no?
So these last two months I’ve been paying for everything my friend needed because her checks wasn’t coming and she wasn’t able to open an account she said once she gets paid I will get everything back and I agreed cause I trusted her and we’ve been friends for 4 years so I bought her crocs, paid for her pedicures, filled up her tank several times , paid for her food, her nicotine and alcohol addiction, I also paid $150 to get her car fixed, she had me cash app people and pay her $60 Apple subscriptions and several other things it started to feel as if she would only hit me up to use my card or needed money she would be out would our friends eating at places near me and I would get no invite and if I would text her she would respond 10 hours later so I decided to fall back and see how things would turn out so she finally starts getting her checks and at first it was on one for those prepaid cards her job gave her and immediately she spent it on $300 worth of make up at Ulta and mall trips instead of paying me back so I let it slide and assumed she’ll pay me back next check so 2 weeks later her next check comes and I asked back for some of the money back like the car payment and I got $100 out of $150 I paid for the car to be fixed then the next day after that we got out to eat with 2 other friends and we order the food and they all leave me at the Register to pay for everyone’s food I did not agree to pay for their food and mind you it was $50 for everyone but me being a good friend and Ik I would feel bad if I just came back with food to the table but I knew that she had money and she left me to pay for her and her friend food so out of the $100 I received back $50 already gone so Another two weeks go by and it’s time for her to get paid again so I hit her up and tell her I need $100 back either this check or the next one for the $60 Apple charge and the money she made me cash app so she instantly gets mad and says “ohh so it’s fuck my birthday” “you ruined my birthday”because her birthday is next week literally just because I asked for the money she said she was going to pay me back for and I’m not even asking for the full amount and mind you I’m broke at this point because I’ve been doing so much for her and spent my last getting her a birthday present and she does this so I’m hurt by this cause I’ve been going above and beyond for her and she goes off on me for asking for my money back so I decided this would be the end of our friendship so we go weeks without talking and I also forgot to mention she had to get her checks deposited into my account cause at the time she didn’t Have a card until I got her one so honestly I could have kept the money cause it’s what I’m entitled to she owes me way more than that but I didn’t sent her money and I waited till she uses all the money to close the account so I finally decided to close her account that I had open for her and she had like $3 in it and $1.50 in her savings so she calls me and is being rude and tells me I need to cash her the money so me wanting to be done I cash app her $5 for the little $4 she had in her account to be done with her so the same day later that night a friend of ours who lived with her she kicked her out because she was still friends with me and because she didn’t wanna fill her tank up she I say she can stay with me cause she has no where else so my friend tells me what’s been happening the girl has been talking about me and saying how she wants to fight and she been wearing my clothes some of the stuff I haven’t even wore yet but I let her borrow it like imagine someone talking shit about you wearing your clothes 🥴 but anyway my friend also tells me the girl used her and used all her money as well and my friend mom passed away this weekend due to COVID and she tells me the girl as been using her moms death as a profit like being people for cause her mom died and going to Dutch and saying can we get a free drinks her mom just died so at this point I’m in disgusted with her and so done with her Bull shit but today I noticed that her check got deposited into my account and honestly idk if I should keep it it feels like a blessing cause I actually do need to money and she owes me this money but honestly idk if I should keep it or not 🤕 like imagine being this dumb destroying friends and using people and forgetting to switch banks 🤦🏽♀️
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