My whole life I hated the idea of a man I'm with lusting after another woman (please don't bash me for this I know I suck)... But over the last year I can't help but keep thinking I want to watch it with my SO. We have talked about a dom/sub relationship but neither of us know where to start. I started looking at some and it started to really turn me on. I don't know what changed for me because it used to make me so uncomfortable.

Has anyone else been through a similar situation??