"The Pill"

Okay i need help from anyone please im a bit scared right now , the reason for this is that last friday my boyfriend and me have sex and after that i started taking my birth control pill but we did it for about 10 min but he didnt cum so then we did it again monday for about 5min and he didnt cum either and i kissed my pills over the weekend but i took them on monday again and from then on i started faking them everyday and my period was suppose to come on thursday and im abit scared because i havent gotten it and i get slight cramps but they go away but im still scared 😭 someone help!!