I have a (full legal court handed) restraining order against my mother in law (I’ve never got along with her) when she found out I was pregnant she threatened to kill me (she gave details of methods like poison, drugging me, having someone come into my house and killing me) and have her son (my husband) and my child move back home to her house with her where she can have ‘her family”. Our son is 10 days old and my husband wants to take our son to meet her because it’s ‘his mom’. I’m absolutely not ok with it and have told him it’s a solid no but he’s pissed about it. Would you let him?