Is there such thing as being to tight you cant have sex?

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I'm a virgin but one of my worst fear of losing my virginity is if I'm to tight and the pain of course. I basically stopped growing and im like 5'0 and weight around 120. And I have done some exploring and I am sooooo tiny that I'm not sure if it's normal, I'm surprised that I can get a tampon in. But I'm scared that when I'm about to lose my virginity that he cant even get it in.....

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If you’re stressed or tense the muscles in your vagina will clench and tighten making it “tighter and smaller” when you’re more relaxed and aero used your vagina can expand QUITE a bit and this is completely normal. Its why you’re able to push and entire baby out! 
Try exploring your body and you’ll notice when you’re more arroused and relaxed your vaginal muscles will be much more relaxed and you will have proper lubrication. 
This is also why foreplay before sex is important, if you do enough foreplay you’ll be lubricated enough and your muscles relaxed enough that your first time won’t have to hurt or be uncomfortable. I’m not going to promise that your first time will be perfect because most women’s first times aren’t and that is okay. But sex should be enjoyable even your first time. Just remember to go slow, take your time, and use a little extra outside lube if you need it! It’s okay!

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I know I'm coming to this so late but I'm 4'11" 115 lbs and got married about 6 months ago (as a virgin) and we had a really hard time for a couple of months. He "didn't fit" all the way in (literally just the tip) and I would bleed a lot after trying. I was always very aroused but it just didn't work. We found out that my hymen was just very thick and "blocking" him. Eventually, after trying over a couple months we "broke through" and now we have sex normally and it's awesome. The doc also said that this situation really isn't that common so you'll probably be fine but in case you do fun into issues at first, try not to panic and/or self diagnose. If you have other symptoms of medical issues, you should definitely see your doctor though!

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I’m also 5”0 and I’m about 120 too! You will be totally okay. Use plenty of lube and it’ll be no problem! However if you’re not emotionally/mentally ready, you will tense up and it’ll hurt like crazy no matter how much lube is used. Just make sure you’re ready!

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I know someone who had to have surgery before sex because of this. The only reason she knew it might be an issue was because her mom waited u til marriage and had incredibly painful sex for almost two years. When she went to the doc she got a diagnosis. She wanted to ensure her daughter didn’t go through the same

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It’s normal, you’re a virgin so it’s going to be tighter. It is a possibility it is going to hurt the first time, or it might not. You never know until it happens. Save your virginity for the right person, once you lose it you can’t get it back

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I used to have the same exact worry before I lost my virginity too. I think I was scared at the fact that it was going to hurt but as long as you are with the right person and you are not rushing into anything. The worry goes away.

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As far as your size, you should be fine. I’m 5’1 and 100 pounds. I stopped growing around 16 years old. The first couple times were painful but that’s to be expected for everyone.

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How old are you? 😬

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I knew a woman that saved herself for marriage and had some issues having sex for the first couple months after she got married. Whether that’s because she was a virgin until 28 or due to some other reason, I have no idea. But she did find “toys” for this issue, apparently it’s not uncommon. They kind of come in four to five different sizes to help you get more comfortable with having a penis inside of you.

Is there such thing as being to tight you cant have sex?

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