Boyfriend hangs out with the DUMBEST people
Hey ladies! I just want to tell y'all about this because idk why I've been feeling so upset about this lately. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 1/2 years. He's 24, I'm 22. He still hangs out with his high school "clique" and they are honestly so immature. They get drunk all the time, still live with parents, barely work, and literally want to hang out almost every weekend. It's especially hard because his one friend (*Jake) has been pushing him (my boyfriend) to hang out but Jake literally has NOT social distanced this whole time. I don't feel comfortable because my dad is at-risk of complications from COVID and I regularly see him. My boyfriend's one friend got a girl pregnant after dating for UNDER A MONTH, is an alcoholic, and treats her like literal shit (at a family Christmas party, he got drunk while carrying the baby in his arms and she nearly fell out a bunch of times). He keeps on asking my boyfriend to go golfing all the time. I already have limited time to see my boyfriend because of our jobs and he lives 30 minutes away. We literally almost broke up like a few weeks ago because of his immaturity etc. and you'd think he'd be trying to repair things after something like that!!! All he wants to do on Friday nights is hang out with the dumbass friends or go golfing. He already golfs once a week but now he wants to go out again with one of the "bro's" tomorrow. 😭 I just want to have a mature relationship. I understand he wants to have "guy time" and that is definitely important! But, I feel like it is happening too often, especially given the circumstances. Am I wrong to think like this?
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