So I'm so upset and it may be the pregnancy hormones that are heightening my emotions but here's the story: My husband got a new job in June and it's been going well. He's guaranteed a raise around every 6 months which is great. Recently he came across an opportunity for another position (which supposedly he's always wanted). It's more dangerous and he has to take a bunch of classes (which cost $) and he has to do a mandatory boot camp every weekend from the end of November through mid February. If he doesn't show up he gets kicked out automatically. He also has to pay for all of his equipment which is very costly. Eventually he will make good money (in 2-3 years) so I'm happy that he has this opportunity but it's just really bad timing. We are expecting our first baby in February and we're already just getting by with what we have now. He gets mad at me because I am not "supporting him" but I just keep thinking about all the negatives. We need to be saving money, not losing money and I want him to be able to be around if and when I go into labor no matter what as well as after the baby is born. Am I in the wrong?