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My SO and I are active duty service members. We are both leaving for sea duty for four years in January. He'll be in Japan and I'll be in California. We already have a daughter who'll be 9 months on the 21st and I'm currently 5 weeks pregnant. I love children, Lord knows I do. I wanted to go again after I had my daughter but I quickly realized that it was too soon and that we should wait so I started getting the Depo-Provera shots. Everyone else in my situation has a boyfriend/hubby that's excited and supportive. My boyfriend wants me to get an abortion and I can't even stomach the thought. But as I think about it, as much as I'll hate him for forcing me...I can't manage two babies alone while he's in Japan for sea duty. I planned my 21st birthday going a whole lot different than me being pregnant. I want to enjoy my time living in California will just one child and being about to go out to sea exploring different countries. Not being pregnant with #2 and struggling. I don't want to resent my children when i had the opportunity to make a different choice. I can't give the child up for adoption because they need the consent of both biological parents and he won't consent. My mind is racing, I can't think straight, and I feel like the scum of the earth right now. I just need some CLEAR, POSITIVE ADVICE.
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