Okay so 23 years ago, I was adopted. Never knew my bio family until I was 18. When I turned 18, I found out my bio dad died in a car accident. Today (7/20) is his birthday and for the last 5 years it’s been one of the hardest days because I’ll never get to meet him.

So anyway, my boyfriend has 3 kids. And I love them to PIECES. I have 2 of my own. He doesn’t have set days that he sees them, his baby mama decides. ANYWAY, two weeks ago I asked him to make sure that he doesn’t get the kids, because I just can’t be alone today. He promised that he would tell his baby mama that he’s busy today. Anyway, come to find out he’s getting his girls today. I’m just accepting it cu I feel like a complete asshole for being upset about the situation and all my friends say I’m being ridiculous. We rarely see each other because we both work. Today we happened to both have off.

Am I in the wrong for being upset? I’m not making an issue about, I’m letting it be. But personally I believe all you have is your word, and if you break that, then there’s no trust.

*i don’t mind spending time with his girls, but his baby mama hates me simply because I’m with him..I used to be her babysitter*