Should I go or not go?

So my twin sisters baby shower is August 1st. Her husband is best friends with an EX on mine. That’s how we met. His best friend is going to be an “uncle” to my niece. My husband is not comfortable with me and my son going to the baby shower due to my EX, my husband works on that day and we REALLY need the money. My EX and I used to talk off and on before my husband and I got married. Should I go to the baby shower and upset my husband? Or not go to the baby shower and upset my sister?

Before they invited my ex they knew it would make problems in my marriage.

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Yall have to compromise. You need to go and he needs to request off if he doesnt trust u at a shower with family and friends .., thats odd.

Mi

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You missing your own sisters baby shower is not an option. I’m surprised your husband would even consider that. I get he feels weird about the ex being there. It makes sense. But he needs to trust you and understand that this isn’t just some little family get together. This is your sisters baby shower. It’s something you won’t get the opportunity to do again. And on the flip side, this ex of yours is the best friend of your sisters husband. It’s also not an option for him to not invite his best friend. That is ridiculous. Your husband either needs to take the day off, or he needs to trust you.

Br

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I mean I don’t see why he’s so worried if your family and friends will be there... could he switch days with someone or work a partial day so he’s able to go?