Daddy issues😔

So my dad has always been a very outspoken person in my life. Even when I introduced my bf to him he told him a bunch of absurd things so he wouldn’t be with me. Well now that I’m pregnant and have moved in with my bf. I guess my dad felt a certain way. I’ve always been a daddy’s girl and I love him to death but as I get older I’m starting to see how mean he has become. Well long story short we had our gender reveal party at my fathers house because he offered, and it turns out the day of the party he wanted nothing to do with it. But he didn’t say anything about it. I found out from

My sister a few days ago how he really felt. Somewhere along those lines he made a comment saying I was going to be a bad mom and was going to abandon my child with the father. Also that my baby daddy would soon leave me and I’d have to return back to my fathers home. Idk if I’m over reacting but that really hurt my feelings to know that he thinks I won’t be a good mom. I’ve been crying about it here and there and my bf tells me not to listen to him but I can’t help how hurt I am from it. I use to always go to my parents house everyday but now I don’t even feel like being around him if he feels so strongly about this. I feel like a jerk not even going to visit them anymore but I’m hurt and there’s no talking to him. In his mind he’s never wrong so it’s pointless to even say anything to him. What do you guys think I should do?