Yes / No Relationship..

Hi everyone.

I am not sure how to put this but here it goes.

More than a week ago my fiance and I bought a scooter together. It's just something small so we can get to work, town and so on. So on the day we buy the scooter, I only heard afterwards that he borrowed it to this girl to go somewhere without even asking me or just saying no! 😱😤

Now yesterday again she goes and asks him and he says that she must come and ask me. Right........ Now she asked me and said she wants to borrow it because she doesn't want to walk. 🤔

Humm she has a car and her own partner to pick her up if she wants to go somewhere. So why use our transport.

So I said no because what if it breaks and then we have to walk. It's our transport we bought together (it's not cheap)

He was quiet unhappy about me saying no to her yesterday and she looked pissed! Didn't talk to me or look at me further but with him she will carry on talking and so on. 😶🤨

Guys... WHAT can I do for my fiance to start saying NO to the people?!

I mean come on, He even went and bought this other young girl a big teddy (was freaking expensive) and gave it to her because of her leaving soon (will have to see because it's now the 3rd time saying she's "leaving") so it's the first time he bought her something as far as I know.

He cant say no to others but says no to me with certain things.

For example.. there was something I really wanted for the house and it was just a little cheaper than the teddy he bought for this girl and guess what he said..... we cant afford it now. Maybe next time. 🤔😏

Am I the bad one??

😣😣😣😣😣😣

Ps...

Another thing we are arguing about is, recently the house is starting to develop mold in every room and its leaking water on walls, floors and so on.

So we have to move as we are both feeling sick of the mold!

The owner said no, he can fix it.. Right... this is not a quick fix. We have to move!!

My question is, Why does he just say where he wants to move and doesn't even ask my opinion?!

I'm really feeling hurt and angry!