Has anyone else had trouble getting his penis into your vagina?

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My boyfriend and I have recently started trying to have sex (his penis in my vagina), we’ve previously done oral sex. We’ve been together for two years and I completely love and trust him. I’ve never had penetrative sex before and it hurts a lot when we try. 
Even when I try to relax he can make it about halfway in, and then it feels like there’s something inside of me that’s blocking the rest of the way in? 
I’m wondering if anyone else has had a similar experience or has any advice. We use condoms and plenty of lube. 
I’m just really frustrated by it because I really want to be able to have sex with him!

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Yes, if I’m not aroused enough. Sometimes it takes me a while for my body to get ready enough for sex. All the lube in the world won’t help if I’m just not there yet.

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i think you all should be doing lots and lots of foreplay! making sure that you're aroused enough!

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foreplay! he needs to get you really really wet, he has to play with you, rub your clit, finger you, eat you out... if not it’ll be hard for him to go in you.

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My boyfriend is on the larger size so most of the time we have to slowly move his dick in and out for a few times for my body to get ready for it then he slowly pushed all the way in by that time I’m ready to go. But your a virgin so it’s gunna hurt because he has to break through your hymn (or how ever you spell it) first you will feel pain for a few moments just let him sit in there and let your body adjust to him. 
I know it’s difficult now but I promise if you push though the pain just once it will get better with time!😬

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It’s going to hurt he would have to put the tip in first then push the rest in . He would
Have to go slow when he puts it in.

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Use lube until your body gets use to it

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Go to a doctor and make sure everything is ok down there, you don’t want to end up hurt really bad because something was off. Better safe than sorry.

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Does it hurt for you when he’s trying to get it to fit more?

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Everyone’s first time having sex if your partner is particularly large especially, it doesn’t go all the way in and It may not even go far at all. Just keep working at it GENTLY. Because you don’t wanna risk causing microtears in your vagina because that is painful to run water over and may cause bleeding. No health issues will happen it just kinda hurts :) You will know when your hymen breaks because there will be a little bit of blood don’t be alarmed :) ￼Keep using lube and condoms :) ￼￼ ￼

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Maybe get a smaller toy and try that first?  He could use it on you, put it in and get you relaxed and ready for him?

Has anyone else had trouble getting his penis into your vagina?

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