My sil is a picker

Do you have someone in your life who will corner you and nitpick away until they drag the most painful things out of you? It’s almost like they enjoy other people’s pain and relish in it. So they’ve learned how to find your pain and twist knives into it, distract you and then continue to twist knives until the pain is so unbearable you crack.

My sil is this way. This weekend she came her specifically to get me drunk and bring up legal things her husband lawyer had done for my husband. Then she proceeded to tell me my pain was helping her feel better.

She’s a huge bitch.

I’m just curious if anyone else has felt this happen? After the fact you feel so violated because how manipulated you were and how much they loved to see your pain. I’m just curious how someone else deals with it.

She texted me shortly after she got home to rub more salt in the wound so I did tell her off a bit. But I’m feeling so beaten, I’m having a hard time getting over it.