Thoughts & Opinions

Well ladies this isn’t a page I wanted to post in but here I am just trying to figure out normal life again after a second miscarriage this year. The first one was back in January, it was a blighted ovum and i passed it naturally. It was a long two week experience and the day of was super painful in all aspects (physically, emotionally and spiritually). Fast forward to today when we found out we’re having an impending miscarriage after seeing the heartbeat days ago apparently the baby isn’t growing either after 5.5 weeks. I have the option to pass it naturally which could take a couple of weeks and again super painful or I can go in for the D&C surgery. I’m leaning towards D&C just to be over it and I don’t have to deal with passing a tiny baby out myself. But what are your thoughts, options or experience with a D&C? Or would a natural pass be the best option on the body?

Side note: I know you aren’t doctors and I definitely plan on speaking with my doctor about the options. Also, let’s keep it civil everyone will have different opinions and ideas and that’s ok. We’re all still on the same struggle bus together.