is it bad if I don't know if my new boyfriend is "the one" yet?

im 21 and was in a relationship from 15-20 (it's been about a year now). I finally have a new boyfriend and I definitely like him! we've been officially dating for one month and I've known him for two. but is it bad if I don't know if he's THE one yet? like am I supposed to be head over heels for him at this point yet? it's been so long since I've started a new relationship that I have no idea whether or not my feelings are progressing normally. I get pretty bad relationship anxiety and always worry that I'm not feeling this or that enough and I overthink way too much. is it bad if I don't know yet? like if he was the one for me, would I have known from the first time I met him? :/