Is this normal? (TMI WARNING)

I’m 3 months postpartum & I’ve noticed a few things that are off.

1) I’m losing an ungodly amount of hair. I brushed my hair this morning & by the time I was done I had collected a wad of hairs about the size of a grapefruit. I know that can be normal, but as someone who is extremely attached to their hair it’s devastating.

2) Despite being extremely horny all the time I can’t stay wet. I get wet but it doesn’t last long enough. I dry out down there very quickly. We’ve had to stop mid-way through sex just because I dried out & it hurt. I’m also having a hard time orgasming. Which was never an issue before.

3) My tummy is always upset & it hurts. I constantly feel like I ate something bad & have diarrhea almost every day for the past month. It doesn’t matter how clean I eat, it still persists.

I’m not currently on birth control (just using condoms). Normal vagina birth. No epidural.

Has anyone else experienced this after having a baby??