So we all know the whole deal going on with the coronavirus. I live next to my grandparents and with my mom who has kidney and heart failure. My grandmother has lungs problems.

Well recently my boyfriend and his family all got sick and it is the coronavirus. His dad currently in the hospital on oxygen ventilator.

My boyfriend who was sick for a while told me he was feeling better and cleaned his house (he lives with his family still). He told me to come over.

I told him no. I don’t want to get the virus myself and i definitely don’t wantmy mom or grandparents to get it either.

He told me essentially “how can you expect me to love you when you’re not there for me?” Which seems like break up words to me.

I am confused. Am I doing something wrong for caring about the well being of my own family? *We haven’t seen each other for a month cause that’s how long his sister was sick then his dad got sick and then him.*

How do I respond to this?