Last December I started doing boxing... it was a lot if fun. However, I soon realized that the coach doesnt treat me the same way as other ppl there. Guys and girls train together and both coaches are male. So, I realized he ignored me, disnt want to go one on one with me to show me things, would be really harsh criticizing me although the whole group is just for recreational purposes - no professionals there.

So I thought I might have done something wrong because I realized he was nice and cool to others and ignoring me.

Anyway, after four months of not trainig I decided to go back again to the club (this is Europe so we are not under lockdown anymore) and that was three weeks ago. Ever since I started again, so for the past three weeks, he has been really normal / nice to me, just like with everybody else there. And I was finally happy thinking ok, this guy had an issue and it wasnt my fault. To be honest, I was really surprized how he even said hi, made jokes AAAND eye contact. I think my resting face makes me.look serious. But he knows and has seen me.smile and laugh and when i work i really work and am.focused.

So today I show up and he is completely ignoring me - like completely!!! No eye contact, no bro fist, nothing! The other coach asked him.to explain something to me he was really quick and technical and no eye contact like i didnt exist. Super serious and cold. And i think to myself what the heck happened to trigger him to act like this again? Have I done something different, no? Absolutely not! How is this possible?

I told a friend and she told me it could be possible he likes me and is therefore ignoring me to kinda mask his feelings... (he is happily married with a kid).

This whole.thing makes me think about it a lot because it makes me uncomfortable... you cant imagine what it felt like to have him super close just pass by me like i didnt exist and just two days ago he was all nice and chatty and joking.