So, I just got my anatomy scan and we’re measuring 21 weeks 5 days. My boyfriend works out of town for three/four weeks and then gets a week off and he comes home, Ive currently been staying with my parents because we have had the worst luck trying to find somewhere to rent, finally I came across something, its only a two bedroom one bath, and it’s a little small but it’s in a great spot with a fenced in back yard and it’s RIGHT next door to my bfs mom who I adore and wants us to love there and would be a HUGE help with a newborn and a toddler 🥴

But, now my bf is telling me he wants to hold off on getting it, go with him out of state and come back home in October so he can work that straight month/month and a half, save more money, and find a better place when we come back in October. My question is, should I talk him into just renting this place or do I just go with him and wait for something perfect to pop up hopefully before December? And if I do wait, would it be okay if I skipped going to a dr appointment in September/October?