Pains when having sex

So I’ve been with my boyfriend for 4 years now, and we started have sex less than a year ago, we wanted to wait awhile to make sure the relationship works and we thought we were a bit too young to (we are both 19 now) but stuff like that.

Before we were having sex, we would touch each other and pleasure each other just not through full intercourse so we know each other’s bodies.

When we first started having sex it was amazing! It felt right and natural and really good, we would do it pretty much everyday.

During lockdown, I stayed at my home and he stayed at this, so we were unable to touch or anything for about 5 months. I don’t masturbate so my kitty pretty much has cobwebs dangling 😂

We got together about a month ago now and it just seemed like somethings changed in my body. When he fingered me it hurt more than pleasure and he was only using one finger. Since then we have had sex but had to stop because it hurt me a lot, the last time we had sex he did make me bleed a bit, which I thought was my period as I’m late.

It’s become worrying for us and is affecting our sex life, we’ve been away from each other for a long time and when we are together it hurts too much!

I don’t know if the fact that ive never orgasmed before could affect it, maybe I’m not wet enough or something but weve never used lube before so I wouldn’t have thought my body would change over a short amount of time.

Thank you for reading ❤️❤️ any help would be appreciated