Potty training still stuck

My little one is refusing and now is pooping in his pull up too ! It’s sooo frustrating because he was keeping underwear eddy dry and now he’s pooping and peeing in it all day unless I force or distract him to go 😥😱😣so confused I tried backing off but then he just goes and goes and doesn’t even tell me once and then leaks in his pants and isn’t bothered