In my pregnancy groups, I see all these women making care packages for their nurses or bringing food along with for their nurses..

I really don’t want to. Is that wrong? I have enough to pay for already. We’re not having a shower or any friends/family giving us gifts. I’m paying for everything by myself. PLUS pregnancy doctor visits and the hospital bill. They’re already limiting what we can and can’t bring in to the delivery room. I’m not sure if this is like an expected thing amongst nurses but there’s so many post in my group about it!