Help Ladies! Husband only wants BJ, not sex.

For the past month or two I’ve noticed our sex life take a huge dive!!! Now, my husband consistently asks for Blow jobs and has even made the comment I should give him one every time before sex...I am no way against a BJ here and there but I told him sometimes I just want him to F*@K ME!!!

I have bought tons of sexy lingerie, toys, swings etc and the other night he told me I was lazy and selfish in bed bc I refused that night to give him a BJ...I just wanted sex!!!

I can’t even remember the last time we had penetrating sex... HELP! What do I do? I’ve tried talking to him about it but he denies there’s a problem!!

Any advice on what I should say or do?