Me and my SO have been together for 3 1/2 years. We had some spontaneous sex when we first got together and it has slowly drifted in to boring parent sex if that make sense. We've been through alot and I ended up not feeling attractive to him. We just recently got back from vacation and I was in my period for half of it but the other half we did spontaneous stuff. Actually the best doesnt even involve the sex it was after we put the kids to sleep we poured some drinks and relaxed by the hot tub butt naked and talked. For the first time in a long time I felt connected to him again and wasnt self conscious.. probably because I was drinking. Anywho the point of this post is I wanna continue to be spontaneous which I know he would love. I have lingerie I bought for ever ago and have never worn for him because I dont even know how to surprise him. I'm honestly sick of doing the same ol same ol boring sex. I want that shit to be 🔥🔥🔥.

How do I even go about being comfortable in lingerie? Obviously he has seen me naked but for some reason I get nervous even thinking about being sexy 🙄.

Send help