Am I wrong ?!?

My baby girl turned one month old yesterday.

Her daddies family flew In from Washington state Monday. He likes to drink and so does his family but I can’t really stand it as I grew up with an alcoholic father myself. I knew he would be drinking with them and did my best to let him just have his fun but Friday he went to Tennessee with his dad and brother to visit other family there. He didn’t ask if I was ok or comfortable with him leaving me home with our daughter but just decided to inform me the day before he was leaving. Last night we got into a big fight when he came home because I felt he should have stayed home with me and because he’s been intoxicated since they got here. Our daughter is a fussy baby at night and has to be woken every two hours to feed. I have basically been caring for her on my own around the clock the past week. He now is out again tonight blowing and it’s 11:30pm. I called and asked what his plan Was and he told he didn’t know he was bowling and yes of course drinking again tonight. He feels I was in the wrong and should apologize for starting an argument but I don’t feel I should have to apologize for voicing how I’m feeling .... I get that he missed his family and is enjoying the company but I also feel like he should take us into consideration and be home with us at night and still be helping with the baby. If my family was in from out of state I wouldn’t be able to up and leave for the weekend or stay out all night drinking while he was left at home taking care of the baby. I guess I feel like he should be making the choice to be here but instead he’s using his family being here as an excuse to party! Any suggestions on what I should do?!?