This time last year I was pregnant and I ended up losing my baby at 16 weeks and 4 days which was September 2nd. I wanted to honor her memory by announcing my pregnancy on the one year anniversary of losing her. I’m still stuck on whether I want to though. I told friends a few days after that she was gone and a few used that moment to bash me on social media. I have since blocked them but I know we still have mutual friends that can discuss it with them. I don’t want the stress but I’m tired of hiding my pregnancy and want to tell more than the few who know. Am I overthinking this? Should I just let it go and announce on her day?

This was the photo I made after the tech slipped and revealed the gender a few weeks ago. Hormones are high and I’m just very indecisive nowadays.