Why does he think he has a say in what does on!

Question

So my boyfriend asked me to get on birth control because he wants to fuck me raw and cum in me. I honestly don’t wanna get on birth control again because it was just a hassle to me.
He keeps badgering me saying oh it’s annoying you won’t get on it blah blah like Jesus when r they gonna get a male birth control.

Answer

It’s annoying that you won’t alter your hormonal balance and take a pill every 24 hours or get a device inserted into your cervix or have something shoved under you’d skin or get a shot that could leave you unbalanced and bleeding for months? 
Annoying, is it? 
Some fucking men, dude. I’d tell him it’s a hard no and to stop harassing me.

Answer

That’s a decision that solely effects your body. Birth control is definitely a hassle for some people and it can affect your mood and a lot of other things. He doesn’t have to deal with any of that so you shouldn’t have to deal with it just so he doesn’t have to wear a condom. It’d be okay if he expressed this to you in a mature way. Like if he sat down with you and you both had a mature discussion about your birth control options and what would be best for you. But it sounds like he’s acting childishly.

Answer

DO NOT let a man or any other person, intimate or not dictate the decisions you make. You need to make it clear to him that you don’t want to and he meeds to stop bothering you about it. Take note of his actions and his responses. You don’t want to be in a relationship where you feel forced to make decisions that aren’t in your best interest. Its the quickest way to resent him.

Why does he think he has a say in what does on!

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