My boyfriend confided in me yesterday that he no longer enjoys my company and doesn't look forward to seeing me anymore.

I feel so heart broken. We live together and things have been rough lately but I didn't realize they were that bad.

We have different views on covid. He wants to just block it out, pretend like it doesn't exist and go about life as usual but I have a mild autoimmune disorder and am scared of getting the virus and am staying home , social distancing and have asked that he do the same for my safety and he doesn't want to anymore. He feels that I'm controlling him by asking that he doesn't do inside hang out, go out to eat indoors or get in too close of contact with people (not social distance.)

He can still golf, ride dirt bikes, hike, ride on boats go to the lake do any of the things he normally would. I just ask that he drives separately so he's not cooped up in a car with people or not go inside his friends homes but visit them outside instead..

I just don't feel like my requests are too much and he has been ignoring them and disregarding my boundaries around my safety with covid.

Am I being controlling for telling him what he can and can't do if we're going to be able to stay in close contact like a couple who lives to get her and shares the same bed should?