Very personal question....

For starters, I’m 24 years old and I’ve been married to my husband for four years. Our daughter will be 9 months on Sunday.

My question is, after having your LO, does anyone hardly have the desire to have sex and or have a really hard time getting in the mood? I know this is a very personal question but I’m wondering if I’m the only one.

Before our daughter, my husband and I couldn’t keep our hands off of each other. And I had no problem getting in the mood. Now, it just seems like I can’t ever get in the mood and I’m always turning him down. I feel so bad for him that we’re hardly having sex. And I truly wish our relationship was back to the way it was before our daughter. I know since having our daughter we’ve kinda put our relationship on a back burner and we don’t go out (just us) together on dates very often. We’ve only been on two dates since having our LO.

So I’m wondering is this normal or do I need to see my doctor? Or is it just simply needing for my husband and I to work on our relationship and we could possibly get back to the way it was before our LO. I feel like I’m just really young to be having this problem already. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!!