He said I’m a catfish...

I started talking to this boy on tinder on august 15th we would basically have hours long phone calls and basically vibed.

We decided to meet August 19th and so we did but as soon as I got in his car, his attitude changed from wanting to try something with me and focusing on me; now it was said that all that was lies and he didn’t want anything.

He didn’t try kissing me or even looking at me for more than 10 seconds. He did get me food. But an hour later, I was mad his attitude changed because we had talked for hours and hours about all this just to be like yea nvm.

I blocked him on all social media’s but I was telling my friend about him and so she added him on Snapchat , he then asked who she was and she told him that she saw him on tinder since his snap was on his bio.

He was like okay but then somehow he put two and two together somehow and told her “who are you really? Let me find out some girl told you to add me because I didn’t like her catfish self” and well I know he was referring to me because I’m the only person he met up with recently that was a girl.

And it would explain why his behavior changed towards me. But I mean I do use Snapchat/Instagram filters all the time but there are videos and pictures of me to show that I don’t edit them, it’s just a filter but somehow even though it’s me, I’m still a catfish 💀 I feel so insecure now

Also you know how tinder you can verify your identity? Well I did. I don’t know how accurate that is but obviously I wasn’t a using a filter when I was getting approved to be verified. and I was. and that day that I took the test to be, i wasn’t even dressed up but I feel like I already have my own insecurities and filters do enhance then I rather use them but if anything this now took a toll on my self esteem .

Im 20, he’s 21. I did ask to FaceTime but he stated he didn’t want to be seen unless it was in person and I was fine with it because I thought there was a connection within the conversations.

Im not saying it’s bad that he was uninterested , I mean that was his choice . It’s the fact that the only reason I found out truly why he stopped liking me was through someone else and he couldn’t just say that to my face. And now i am unconfident .

I understand that I am not everyone’s cup of tea and if he didn’t like my looks then someone else can. But as of now I feel ugly because it makes me regret even meeting with him if he was going to see me the way he did.

And ok, lesson learned to not use filters on dating sites.