Has your partner’s ex(es) ever came at you before?

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My fiancé’s ex got pissed bc he went public w me on Facebook and never did w her. She sent me several messages from fake Facebook accounts trying to convince me he was cheating. She had all her friends add me and my fiancé on all our socials and had them screenshot and send her all of our posts together. She tried to get her brother to message me and see if I would cheat on my fiancé. She’s currently dating his other ex from high school in an attempt to make him jealous and she’s best friends w his cousin and he had to block her bc she was starting shit too. She’s done so much more than all this. She’s fucking crazy and I’ve never even met her. 🤷‍♀️ She done this for 6-7 months before finally leaving us alone. We had to learn not to play into too much and she finally stopped.

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When we first posted our relationship pictures on Facebook she decided to come onto my page randomly reacting to things & I’m like so who are you she’s like oh I’m Dexter’s ex & blah blah I think you’re cool & your vibe seems dope & I’m like so yeah I’m not interested in befriending ANYONE from my man’s past but thanks for the compliments. She got upset but it was weird because it was like she wanted us to be friends & the thing is he had been cut contact with her before we were even together so her being married to someone else coming out of the blue to try to befriend her ex’s new girl was so creepy to me. I blocked her & never had another issue after that but it was definitely weird. Sometimes the exes are just possessive or nosey. 🤷🏽‍♀️

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My husbands ex girlfriend tried to tell me he was cheating on me with her. Made up a whole story about it and got her friend involved. She also posted a picture of her wearing his moms jacket on her Twitter, acting like it was going to upset either one of us when it wasn’t even his jacket to begin with lol. She would message me out of blue asking for his moms phone number because she was going through something that apparently only his mom would understand. She went out of her way to ask me for the number when she still talks to my husbands sister and easily could have asked her. She even showed up at their house unannounced, probably hoping my husband would be there. WEIRD behavior, just trying to get attention.

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My SO’s ex didn’t come at me but she still tried to interject herself into his life by reaching out to his family to ask how he’s doing.... She can’t seem to move on from him and was always sending him letters, clothing, etc after they broke up talking about how much she loves him, how he changed her life, blah blah blah... She’s psycho. She’s lucky she’s never had the balls to message me.

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Not to me personally but at my husband well when he was still the boyfriend lol but it was because a month before we started talking they was still talking she wanted him to go visit her at Florida and give it “ANOTHER CHANCE” but than i send him a friend request on fb and he totally forgot about her he told her that he found someone that he can actually see himself with and not just picking up where they left it at that’s what she wanted soooo her words to him where “ ok we’ll see about that “ we got pregnant before a year of being together we was already living together my husband isn’t into the whole posting about his personal stuff on fb about us unless it’s a family picture ect...:. So our daughter was a year old already she thought we wasn’t together because of not posting on social media she hit him up on ig saying she’s gorgeous “ imagine if she was our daughter she would’ve of been more cuter 🤬 that pissed him off  he told her to back off his shit and to stop before it became an actual problem with and me we been together 4 years now 2 kids now married for 1 year she’s blocked lol

Has your partner’s ex(es) ever came at you before?

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