Hubby may have early ED, (Erectile Dysfunction) and not sure what to do.

We are in our early 30s, newly, and first time married, long time being together long distance. I mean a long time lol. Love and bond are not an issue here.

Anyway, he's kind of had an issue off an on before, but rarely. Now it's a constant thing. It started after an embarrassing incident.

I give really good head apparently. So as usual i got him close quickly, and he prefers to finish inside me but pull out, while of course giving me some orgasms first. Well, we were eagerly changing positions in the dark to do the latter half, and we both turn our bodies around too close to each other and too fast, and i get an elbow to the middle of the nose. Like the bridge. When i tell you pain.

Anyway, i feel my nose. It's wet. Still dark. I think well, probably just a lot of snot from the impact. It was blood. Dripping blood. My first time having a proper nose bleed or nose injury. He feels so bad and still does. it's been weeks. It's hard enough to consistently convince him that pulling my hair is ok (done the right way) and makes me literally instantly cum if I'm already aroused. He's very vanilla.

He's had consistent erection problems since the nose incident. Even his sleeping ones are fewer, weaker, etc. Same for random boners. Sometimes he can get one faurly quicjly4, but usually it's slow now. Only rock hard or pretty hard if horny. Random ones are just kind of...there.

Other factors:

*Stress

*Working overtime for months

*Diet has changed for the better with me around but could be better. Used to be lots of fast food and junk living alone.

*Now probably psychological stuff or subconscious worries about hurting me again by accident.

*not sleeping enough consistently

*obese, but just barely.

*Maybe low T? He's asian and doesn't work out much currently. Never has been super muscly or hairy as is common with Asians. Nor meathead macho insecure type.

He even says it feels like something isn't right down there. Loss of sensation, tingling.

What can we change at home to try and help it before going to a doc? Sure i can use my hand or toys but the poor guy feels ashamed and less like a man, and can't even orgasm.

Anyone else run into ED earlier than expected in life?

There was one weird incident a few months ago. We were doing doggy, all fine, but he got a sudden intense pain down there and instantly went soft.